I am between two roads. One road will take us into the final adoption process with a daughter that we have been waiting for over 3 years for and love her tremendously. This road brings the emotional roller coaster of parenting that does not compare to any other life situation. I am scared, excited, full of hope, lots of faith and willing to give up any self interests for her adjustment and well being. We will be trusted with giving her a family and helping her feel loved.
The second road is one I have just accepted as a choice. It will be the road of moving on to more independence, letting go of the little boys as they adjust into adulthood. It will be giving up the hope for adoption of one that would need me. I shall bemore grateful for what I have and content on the way fate has lead me on this road. I will be more aggressive in my work and seek more opportunities.
So here I am. I have been here a while but finally able to understand where I am, how I got here, the emotions tied to this and the positives of each road. I am trusting my faith that my road will be clear within 2 months. We will not renew paperwork or continue to wait for a daughter. There are so many others in line behind us that if we are unable to be matched then it wasn't our fate. If we do get matched with in 2 months then I will trust that this was our destiny.
It is difficult to put a deadline to this process, but as a family we need to.
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